The goal here at BFN is to pursue your Life’s Destiny—to become the very best you can be.
In time, you will take your life to a whole other level and then a whole other level after that.
Yes indeed, the goal is to become a Force of Nature as I call it.
The reason you will do this is simply because it is the right thing to do. And it is without question the best way to live. There is nothing better that a man can do with his life.
It will benefit you, your loved ones, and all of those around you. By becoming the very best you can be you will lift them all up. They will be inspired by your life force and begin to take steps to improve themselves as well. Of this I have no doubt. Just wait and see.
Internalize what you read here and take action. Reclaim yourself and all your God given potential. Never stop and never quit. It’s as simple as that.
Commit like never before and in a few months you will begin to sense it. You will carry yourself with a new and powerful energy. As crazy as it sounds, you will begin to enjoy your own company just walking around; and so will others. Even those of a casual acquaintance with will be affected—most everyone will be better for their interactions with you.
Some of you out there will even have an impact on a whole other level. Some of you, I dare say, have the potential to affect your communities, your nation and even the world. We live in an age now where technology and communication can provide tremendous leverage. You could be just around the corner so to speak from something really special.
As it happens, one of the interesting benefits to living your life in pursuit of your very best is that it will put you way out in front of your woman. In some respects you will simply leave her behind.
On the day you make the decision, hit the gas all the way to the floor and then never quit, it will begin to completely change your relationship and change it for the better.
This will all be a side benefit of course. But one which we of the the truly romantic sex will enjoy to the fullest.
My expectation is that your transformation will eventually become jaw dropping. And the unrelenting pursuit of your agenda will have her shaking her head in amazement. This won’t all happen at once, but it will happen.
Where there was once a fire before, there will be once again. She won’t be able to help it.
But pay very close attention, besides crafting your life according to your Life Mission you will also need to become the tip of the spear for your woman. You will need to break new ground and take the lead on any difficulties. This is a necessary function and an absolute must.
You will need to own it all. Not only will you sharpen your own edge each day, but you will also need to cut through any trouble and act as a shield for your woman whenever necessary. This is a matter of honor and a matter of duty. And you had better realize this expectation is programmed into her very essence.
Have no doubt and be ready. When the shit hits the fan she will look to you. There will be no more equality of the sexes. It will be expected that you will bear the brunt of it. Neglect these responsibilities and you will forfeit much of your previous gains.
This is after all, one of the reasons why a man works to harden and improve his character. The aim is to press forward in good times and bad. Life is not all fair weather. Storms will come. And your woman will need you to take the fire.
No matter how modern and independent she is, there will be tremendous disappointment if you do not take your proper place as the tip of the spear. It doesn’t matter how nasty and how painful the situation you will need to step up and be the man she needs you to be.
Despite our modern technological world, genetically we are still the same as when we were hunter-gatherers up to 2.5 million years ago. Back then, when there was trouble, it was real trouble. Lives were on the line. And along the way up until about 100 years or so ago, it was still pretty much the same. A woman was dependent on her man for survival.
Thus, a woman’s evolutionary expectation is that her man will always take the lead to protect her and her children. Women that chose wrong in the past did not survive and neither did their children. Your woman is the progeny of women that chose wisely. So she will be genetically programmed for survival and to expect nothing but the best from you.
Never forget this. Bad times will come and go through all of our lives. And your woman will not forget how you handle yourself. Accept your responsibility as the tip of the spear. Fight like hell for what is right when the difficulties come. If anything, do it purely for honor.
And if you need to start today, then start today. It is never too late to step up.
But then after the trials pass, be sure to enjoy the benefits you will accrue from your woman as her shield and spear. Polarity is invigorating in this regard. And I suspect the Creator made it so for good reason.
Another consideration in firing up your woman’s interest is committing to the unrelenting indomitable pursuit of your agenda. But do it for your own benefit and as I always say, put yourself first.
Whether she realizes it or not, you will become more attractive to her when you put yourself out front. A man is simply more interesting to a woman when he has a vibrant commitment to his own interests. It will trigger her female imagination and keep you constantly on her mind. This is good.
Redesign your life if you have to and then dig in for the long haul. Never stop and never quit. Endurance must rule the day, every day.
Make it a matter of principle. Make it a part of your code that you will press forward, go around or jump over any obstacle. Take comfort in the discomfort of the challenges and difficulties that come your way. There is no way around it in this world if you wish to make any gains. Nothing worthwhile is easy. There is no easy button.
Think about it. If you commit to yourself like your life depended on it, do you think your woman could ever keep up with you? If you lay it all on the line and apply yourself with Virtue and all the expectations of the Creator, you will indeed get way out in front of your woman.
She won’t be able to keep up and she will know it. And this gentlemen, is a good thing. It will trigger all of her hypergamic nature. You will become what every woman wants.
You will be a man she can look up to—a man of rising Trajectory and even more untapped and exciting potential. She will admire your ambition and take pride in your courage. Other men will pale in comparison and she will realize you’ve become much more attractive to other women.
And all of this will excite her.
This, gentlemen, is living up in the High Country. This is when you become the prize in the relationship and she will be on her toes and constantly working to please you.
Sell out to yourself and craft your life like a work of art.
Pursue your very best with a vengeance and get way out in front of your woman.
And then reap the rewards.
All the best,