You are on the move and taking action like never before. Considerable thought and hardcore decision making have resulted in a new direction and velocity regarding how to live your life from now on. Enough with all of those self-imposed limits. It’s time to take the gloves off and go after it. The past is the past and you are only looking forward.
As such, there is no more time for some of the bad habits of old between you and your woman. Naturally, one of your ideals is to raise the level of your relationship to new heights. There is a new passion burning inside you and with vision and imagination you are crafting a new life for the both of you.
It will be up to you to lead and set the new tone in your household. You will assume the reins of leadership and maintain an indomitable attitude regardless of her reactions. One way or the other your woman will learn that you will not stop and you will not quit. She does not have to match you step for step, but she will need to follow.
But do not worry, you have designed a Life Mission and made it the primary focus of your life. As your momentum builds, so will the quality of the attention from your woman. After all, a man who lives each day driven and relentless in his personal ambition is a man with burgeoning charisma and the irresistible energy of attraction.
Excel in All Areas
None of us is Superman and you will certainly need to select a primary area of focus as you raise the level of your existence. After all, there are only so many hours in the day and we live in an extremely competitive world. Just because you’ve decided to live life at its fullest doesn’t mean everyone will just step aside and cooperate. It is certainly going to take all that you’ve got for the long term. So you will indeed need to prioritize your daily efforts.
However, as you blitzkrieg ahead, make sure to bring along and develop your flank characteristics and other interests as well. Consider your whole self and put some serious thought into becoming a complete man; the complete man that you know is inherent and possible. You will develop all relevant aspects of your character and over time create a jaw dropping transformation.
In other words, you will eventually excel in all areas of your life. As the months pass and you pare away, progress will eventually begin to show. Momentum and confidence will build and a new essence will become part of your physical being. And as a natural consequence you will assume the lead in the relationship with your woman.
Certainly there will be some conscious aspects to this growing leadership, but there will also be an alignment that seems to occur all on its own. The natural order will come in to play as you develop yourself and your woman begins to notice and appreciate what you are doing. As much as you seek to lead the way, you will also become worthy of doing so.
After all, centuries of evolutionary programming favor a man who is capable and fiercely ambitious. It is only natural for a woman to be attracted to and follow this type of man. Subconsciously this is part of every woman’s evaluation of a potential mate. You are now reawakening this instinct in her and the results can only be favorable.
So carry on regardless and enjoy the process. Time is your ally. Simply brush aside any negative reactions or old habits from your woman. Have the confidence that you will both be happiest in the long term if you do what’s right and become the very best you can be.
Never Stop Improving
Yes indeed, carry on regardless. Make it part of who you are to never stop improving. No matter the obstacles or the time, one thing is for sure: you will improve yourself every day from now on.
Even on those days when you’re tired of it all and the luster isn’t there, continue on. This is when it really counts gentlemen; for you and your woman.
There will be many ups and downs over the years. Sometimes you will need to forge ahead simply on principle. This is how you will maintain your momentum and each day will continue to compound with the rest.
Never stop moving forward no matter what. After all, when you are confused, disappointed or fed up, what else is there? Take care and manage yourself for the long term, but make sure to take a few steps forward every day. Eventually you will thank yourself for having the courage and will to do so. And so will your woman.
She will have her ups and downs as well. And since she knows you better that anyone else, she will also know when things might not be at their best for you. Over time your woman will begin to shake her head in amazement at your tenacity and begin depending on your unshakable character. You will become the solid oak tree of stability she desires and the tip of the spear breaking new ground for the both of you.
These are the qualities that make a man worth following. You will be dependable, indomitable and exciting. And over time you will attain a new level of admiration, loyalty and respect from your woman. So dig in and press ahead for its own sake. In the end you will become the best you can be for yourself, the Creator and your woman.
Initiate Good Humor and Teasing
As the saying goes “all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.” Be driven and deadly serious about your ambitions, but remember to have some fun as well. Since you won’t be escaping into your beer any more you can focus much of your attention toward your woman for relaxation and enjoyment.
With your foot on the gas improving yourself every day it will add to your allure if you maintain a demeanor of good humor and engage in the playful teasing of your woman. Imagine her opinion of you if she sees you in a positive mood each day as you embrace and pursue your challenges. Your Trajectory will be an inspiration to her and your continued good nature will lighten the atmosphere in the household.
As you add layers to your character, be sure to share some of your new depth through humor and confidence. And find ways to offer her backhanded compliments through appropriately measured teasing. For some reason, these things are very alluring to a woman when presented by a man of action. It will keep her on her toes and a little off balance. This will be exciting for her and keep her guessing about your next move.
Don’t overdo it, but become a playful mate as a respite from your pursuits. Make her giggle and blush when you can. Compliment her and build her up with humor. Do not put her on a pedestal, but make sure she is aware of your very high opinion of her many positive traits. This will allow you to love your woman with a passion and yet maintain the strong and confident posture of leadership.
Leverage the magical power of duality. Let your woman experience both the excitement of your evolving, serious and rising Trajectory along with a playful and lighter nature. Eventually it will dawn on her what an embarrassment of riches she has in her man. You will honor her with your efforts each day and she will feel privileged to be your woman and very happy in being along for the ride.
Communicate Your Expectations
As you begin to develop some momentum in your life, begin as well to communicate your expectations to your woman. Don’t go overboard here and do not overextend yourself too early. Make sure you are excelling, that you’ve achieved some concrete results and that your woman has begun to take notice. You should be able to see a new sparkle in her eye and she should be exhibiting a new appreciation for your efforts—you will know it when you see it.
By this point you’ve got a firm grasp on where you want to go both personally and with respect to your relationship. With great imagination and an unwavering commitment you have redesigned your life and it is time to let her in on some of your plans. Continue to cement your leadership by beginning to discuss your vision for the both of you, as well as what you will consider acceptable and unacceptable.
Talk to her about how you see the both of you as a couple going forward. You don’t need to necessarily sit down and have a formal discussion, but keep bringing up the same concepts and ideals over and over again. Do this with unbridled confidence and great energy. As a man of action who is confident and focused, you will be alluring and charismatic.
If you find she is not receptive, then employ some outcome independence with good cheer and continue on with your personal development. Make yourself a better man still. If there is any life left in her she will eventually catch on. It is likely she is just fitness testing you to judge your worthiness; is he for real or just going through a phase?
The exception to reacting with outcome independence as you work at crafting your relationship to a higher level is with regard to directly disrespectful behavior. If your woman is ever blatantly disrespectful you will let her understand in no uncertain terms that it is unacceptable and will not be tolerated. Remain calm and speak softly, but be direct and to the point. Then if you are able, leave her presence and continue working on yourself. If it happens again, rinse and repeat until she figures it out.
Pare away at your complete life together. Why settle? You know how you would like things to really be between you. So take your relationship to the High Country as well. Discuss your thinking and get her on board. Make her part of your vision and bring her along for the ride. In the end she will love you for it and become a better mate as you continue to lead the way.
Assume the Lead
The answer to many of life’s problems gentlemen, including your woman, is to simply get better. So make it part of who you are to constantly improve. And become a multi-layered man by working on your complete self. After a while, the sheer weight of your character will overwhelm your woman and she will be happy to follow you as you break new ground.
And lead her you will with good humor and verve. She will enjoy it as you playfully tease her and complement her many fine points on a daily basis. It is also in good nature that you will inform her of your plans for the future and how you’d like to live your lives together. Soon your woman will begin to depend on your vision. You will inspire her, improve her life and then one day she will thank you for it.
All the best,