We live in a social world where style matters. What you wear and how you dress yourself does have an impact in your life. It sends a message to all who see you. Even at home and with your close friends who know you well. The clothes you wear will strongly affect people’s perception of who you are.
That goes double for your woman, even at home when it’s your down time. Never forget she is constantly processing your value as a man. Send her and everyone else the message that you are high value. Let her know that day in day out you are on top of your game. Look sharp and carry yourself with dignity and pride at all times.
Take the time over the next few months to piece by piece upgrade what you wear every day: shirts, pants, shoes, outer wear and workout gear. Make it a part of your life, both at work and at home. Everywhere you go you should look sharp. Make it a point to look good when lifting, grocery shopping, at dinner, at church, at work, everywhere. Don’t spend yourself into oblivion, but get a few nice things.
Have a look around and take notice of others who dress well. Take some time out and browse as they say. Stretch your eye and add a little boldness to your selections. Don’t go over the top, but consider fit and color. Push your boundaries and add some flare. Quietly go about your business and upgrade your wardrobe.
A man chasing his best is a special man in this life. How he dresses and how he carries himself sends that message. You don’t need to run an empire, but you do need to run yourself. And this is what you are now going to do.
You are a man on the upswing. It’s not arrogance. But it is confidence. It is confidence in your Life Mission every day. It is the knowledge that every day you are becoming a better man chasing your Life Vision.
Stand tall and move with surety. Pull your shoulders back. Lift your head and eyes up. Always be aware of your posture. Never take a day off. Broadcast your burgeoning physical prowess and purpose to all those around you.
Develop Your Swagger
Have some swagger. That’s right, you heard me. Make swagger a part of your self-image. Don’t be a clown, but carry yourself with energy and verve.
Even if you are faking it in the beginning, primitive biochemical changes will occur deep within your core. Your posture, outlook and attitude will directly affect your testosterone levels, for example. It will affect them in real time. Your weight training every other day will also send a message to your primal male core to do the same.
Triggering your core as such will be a cure all for much that ails you. You’ll add muscle mass faster, you will burn fat, you will have more energy, aches and pains will diminish, focus and drive will improve.
Be prepared for people to eventually step aside as you walk around. People will defer to you when you meet in a doorway. Women (and men!) will consistently say I’m sorry. You will smile to yourself when this begins to happen one day. Dammit, Max was right you will think to yourself. This will be a small satisfaction and reminder of your progress.
These unseen and intrinsic signals will have a tremendous impact in your personal and professional life. Combined with your Emotional and Intellectual Armor development many good things will begin to happen.
And yes gentlemen, your woman will begin to take note. Benefits will accrue here as well. And these will be some very satisfying benefits. But that is a story for another day.
As you physically transform yourself it will become obvious to those around you that you are indeed a changing man.
But please take note: you will not announce your plans to anyone, especially your woman. As you will learn later on, quietly establishing your Physical Armor and exhibiting the discipline to do it will be part of the solution in returning the excitement and passion to your relationship.
Trust me, your woman will benefit by not knowing your every thought. It will create mystery and curiosity in her mind. It will heighten the positive tension and energy between you.
Bear down on your diet, fitness, style and swagger. Pursue your Physical Armor with a passion. It will be the foundation for your new life.
The psychological momentum created here is not to be understated.
In three months you will have noticeable gains. In six months your energy and ambition will become self-fueling. You will become unstoppable in your quest.
The satisfaction from the extrinsic changes brought about from making a decision and applying it with discipline will light the fire inside of you.
Belief will fuel each glorious day.
Yes indeed, you are beginning to own your game. You are chasing your very best.
You are Becoming a Force of Nature.
All the best,