So you’ve hit the wall. You’re fed up living a life of mediocrity and you’re fed up simply coexisting with your woman. Good, it’s about time.
Enough is enough. You’ve made your decision and you are now going to do it all. It’s time to take the gloves off and pursue your very best. No more coasting along the easy path and no more shallow distractions.
You will burn the bridge behind you and there will be no turning back. You will light your life on fire and bring the same to your relationship with your woman.
A new man has arisen and there is an urgency and a burning ambition to pursue Virtue, Excellence and Quality in every action. You’ve got a new zest for life and it will be damn the torpedoes from this day forward.
Both anger and joy are now the fuel driving you forward. And each one of these motivations is equally important.
As soon as you accept and then fully commit to Your Life’s Destiny, you will indeed get angry. This is a good anger, a healthy anger and it will drive a powerful and indomitable spirit like never before. There will be no more zero days.
On the other side of this double edged sword of urgency and ambition is pure joy—a joy that originates from a higher realm. Your Life’s Destiny is now on the line and nothing could be more exciting and meaningful. You are now in congruence with the Creator and realize it’s simply the best way to live.
Whatever the reason for losing your way, this is now behind you and there will now be an undeterred, unrelenting pursuit of your Life Mission.
Yes indeed, it will be your Life Mission first and woman second—there is now a higher purpose to pursue. You will include your woman in your plans, but employ outcome independence regarding her affections. Set your mind to this new reality and it will only be a matter of time before she is on her toes.
Let your actions do the talking here. Talk is cheap, so keep to yourself and just get the job done each day. In time she will figure it out and ultimately she will appreciate it.
It will become a huge relief when you realize the chains of old are no more. High energy, personal power and swagger will be yours. Each day will become a work of art as you pare away and craft the raw potential that is your Soul.
The best part is that your woman will never be happier.
Sure, there will be some bumps along the way as you set the new tone, but eventually she won’t be able to help herself. Your life energy and raw magnetism will become irresistible. Shit tests will be overcome with amused mastery and she will become putty in your hands.
And like I’ve said before and although it will remain unspoken: you will know it, she will know it and she will know you know she knows it.
This is the best dynamic there is between a man and his woman. It will create a unique tension and energy between the both of you that is naturally intoxicating. Each day will now be tantalizing and you will enjoy seeing your woman in this enhanced state of being. It is fresh, healthy and the way it was meant to be.
Your agenda, Daily Vision and Life Mission will become the framework for your lives together. No more pedestal for her, you and your Mission will now be out front. Your woman will live her life inside of your Frame and nothing will please her more.
It’s exciting and inspiring for a woman to be coupled with a man whose life is on the move with direction and purpose. She can still be as independent as any other modern woman, but will always prefer that you become the tip of the spear in your household, that you set the agenda. This is just the natural order and she will take pleasure in it.
Even if she doesn’t consciously realize it, all she will know is that you have taken the lead, the sky’s the limit and that she is very happy.
Along the way, make sure to keep some of the specifics of your plans and work to yourself. Become a little mysterious as they say and stoke her female imagination a little bit. Forget the standard advice about sharing everything with your woman. This is nonsense.
Remember, familiarity breeds contempt—even with your woman.
Instead let her stew about your motivation and direction. Even if she presses you about your new energy and drive, brush her off with a light touch. She may complain and she may shit test you, but deep down her curiosity will light the fire. Let your actions and results speak for themselves. Become quiet and powerful in her eyes.
However, to maintain momentum along the way and remain in control of your hard earned Frame, you must conduct yourself with Virtue and never compromise your credibility. All it will take is one bad slip and your progress will turn into a world of hurt.
If your woman loses faith in your new stature and sees the habits of old creeping back in, most likely all will be lost. Having her trust in your character is extremely important to the new dynamic. Lose this trust through a lack of credibility and you will have a very difficult time regaining the magic.
She simply will not want to risk being disappointed again.
But you will not backslide. Instead you will take the long view and apply it with a sense of urgency. Virtue will be your foundation and excellence will be your goal each day. Your number one thought every morning will be to pursue your very best. Better to go to bed exhausted than waste another minute.
Craft your life. Consider every day as a glorious blank slate. Regardless of whatever negativity rains down, fight your way through it with Righteous Defiance. Never stop and never quit. You’ve lived on the other side already and come to know that mediocrity stinks on ice. Don’t ever go back.
Hold on to your Life Mission like your life depended on it, because it does.
Build a Daily Vision of where you would like to end up. See your future life in your mind. Make your words and thoughts real. Write it all down and hide it somewhere if you have to, but let there be no doubt in your mind who you want to become and how you want to live each day.
Have the courage to become who you know in your heart you need to be.
All the best,