You are going to pour it on and stoke the fire. No matter your station in life, you will become a man to be reckoned with as you continue to develop each day. You’ve made a hard core decision about becoming the very best you can be. The kind of decision a man makes in concert with his Creator. There is no more serious commitment on this earth. You will not stop and you will not quit.
The momentum in your life will begin to grow. You will feel it and enjoy this raw and newfound energy. There will be the courage and focus to do the little things every day that will add up to pull you ahead like never before.
You will walk tall with surety and purpose, be self-driven and relentless.
This will be as a matter of honor and gratitude for all the unique genetic potential with which you were created. You are a man like no other on this earth and will express that fact to its ultimate potential. You have achieved The Awakening.
Gentlemen, I submit to you this will stoke the fire in your woman like nothing else can – it will light her up. You will return to the glory days of old. The positive energy and tension between you will become as it should. The fire will return and life will be good.
Be Credible and Lead
You will conduct yourself at the highest standard. There will be no more empty promises or lesser behavior. Words and actions will have meaning from now on and the shallow pursuits of old will be cast aside. Your word will be your bond. Action will define your character.
There is a new seriousness to your life. You’ve made a decision and you will follow through until your last day.
The past is the past and you will only look ahead to your new future. This will be a future of credible and purposeful direction. Your woman will need to know this. Set the bar high, follow through and she will begin to take note.
This will all be necessary for you to begin lead your woman. You will lead her because you have chosen to cut through life like never before. A Life Mission now underlies everything you do. A specific and defined Life Vision now drives your very existence.
A man with this kind of purpose and ambition will naturally take the lead in the relationship with his woman and she will appreciate it. This is not a man who is bossy or blusters about. But a man driven to become the very best he can be; a man who is credible and worth following; a man who is exciting, fresh and admirable.
It will only be natural and exciting for her to follow your lead.
Overwhelm her with consistent and principled action day in and day out. You will become magnetic, irresistible and fuel the fire that burns within.
Project Your Expectations
There will be no grand proclamations about your new ambition. Action will replace empty talk from now on. There will also be no seeking of approval or kudos from your woman as you go about your way. You will independently chart a new course for your life and pursue it without apology.
As you keep to yourself each day, take note as she begins to raise an eyebrow. She will become aware that something is stirring within you, something of substance and weight. Use this as a pivot point to start projecting your expectations regarding your physical relationship.
Begin to let her know that as a man you have a healthy and natural appetite. You will not be making any hard demands, but will continue to plant the seed every day. Carry yourself with confidence here. There is no shame or selfishness in your interest. It is only healthy and right with the natural order of things.
You are a man Becoming a Force of Nature. There is nothing more physically attractive on this earth to a woman. Be patient, take the long view and nature will eventually take over.
A man of character, ambition and Trajectory who confidently projects his desires on his woman will stoke the fire within her.
Along the way, make sure to employ Outcome Independence regarding your interest. In other words, do not let her reciprocation affect you. You can take it or leave it. There is definitely an interest on your part, but you’re just as happy to go off on your own and continue with your pursuits.
If anything, react with a muted amusement and continue on with your agenda.
Show little or no emotion, turn away and get something done.
Always have a fall back. Give her a kiss, smile, turn away from her and grab your latest book. Give a quick nod, change and then go work out. Never give her the satisfaction of any disappointment. Again, there is definitely an interest on your part, but you are fine either way.
It seems an odd psychology, but the female mind will eventually become attracted to a man of confidence and drive that does not require her affections for validation.
Treat each day as independent from the next. Continue on as confident as ever. Brush off any tepid response as if it is nothing. Keep on keeping on until the tide begins to turn.
Then ride that wave and enjoy the fine and natural benefits you have earned.
Raise Your Market Value
As a byproduct of all your robust efforts and rising Trajectory you will begin to raise your market value with the opposite sex over time. I speak here of your market value within the oldest, freest and most ruthless market on the planet: the market for coupling between the sexes.
Yes, as you cut weight, add muscle mass, sharpen your style, get smarter and develop your financials the playing field of the sexes will open up for you. The sheer weight of your confidence, energy and drive will begin to add up in interesting ways.
Suddenly one day, you’ll find yourself in a conversation with an attractive woman who seems to be standing just a little closer than she should be. She will be very interested in what you have to say and in no hurry to move on.
And it is very likely this will become more than an isolated incident. Women find men of stature, vision and energy to be magnetic. With your life focus and force of will, many smiles and giddy gestures will become the norm. This will be very satisfying and add a new measure of entertainment to each day.
Of course, as a principled and faithful man with a Life Mission and Life Vision to contend with, these new affections will be kindly and gently brushed aside. Brushed aside, but duly noted.
Your woman, as with all women being the socially adept creatures they are, will also notice these new affections. And bingo, because of the social construct of pre-selection, you will automatically become more physically attractive and irresistible to your woman.
Being the social creatures that they are, a woman will greatly value a man that is found to be attractive to many other females. Unlike for men, where it seems attractiveness is more concretely objective, women will look for social validation as well. This is pre-selection.
If you have been pre-selected by many other beautiful women as a viable male interest, then the nature’s magic will kick in and your woman will find you suddenly irresistible.
The lesson here is to continue your unrelenting quest each day. Put yourself in social situations where your woman can see your rising status with the opposite sex and there will indeed be some complementary benefits that will accrue.
The bottom line is that you are going to need to eventually produce some concrete results to fire things up. All the big plans in the world will do you no good without legitimate action and superior production.
To be blunt, she really doesn’t care about your good intentions and fierce discipline if you don’t follow through and get the job done.
As I always say, start with your physique. It is the simplest way to get going and demonstrate that you are a new man. Impress her with the discipline to cut weight and develop your frame.
In six months you can lose 30 pounds of useless fat and add significant new muscle mass. Go for it and take yourself back to your prime. There is no reason it cannot be done. Bring the hammer down, get serious and don’t stop.
Along the way, start upgrading your wardrobe and pay attention to your personal grooming. Send a signal to your woman and the rest of the world that you are a man on the rise. Get rid of your old, crappy around the house wear and sharpen up.
Never take a day off from looking as smart as you can at home. The same goes for work and social outings. Take the time to develop your own sense of style. Keep it simple, but make it a priority to add some sophistication and thought to what you wear.
As you pare away at your physical self, make sure to do the same with your attitude and demeanor. Always exude confidence and positivity. Become indomitable and keep the throttle down.
Stop complaining. Your woman is not your mother. If something from work or otherwise is bothering you, man up and take care of it. Keep the negatives to yourself. Complaining is not attractive and it makes you look weak. This is not the way to the fire. Be the tip of the spear, be unyielding in your pursuit of life and let her enjoy the ride.
Read every day and get smarter. Learn a new language, add to your professional skills and study business and finance. Over time the world will open up for you and new avenues for success will come to the fore.
Here is where the true power to change your life’s Trajectory is waiting. Unlike never before in history, the world is at your feet with a tablet and access to the internet. Drop the beer and television and leverage this information to transform your life.
Kill your consumer debt and get a year’s expenses in the bank. Study for and develop an investment plan that will eventually produce financial security for you and your woman. If you keep it simple and invest in a U.S. whole market index fund, you cannot fail over the long run.
Never Ending Improvement
It seems to me that if you lead your woman as a credible man, project your interest with confidence and outcome independence, raise your market value and produce results like never before, that some kind of spark is sure to fire things up within your woman.
After all, she is only human. If you commit to the never ending pursuit of your very best, you will eventually leave her with no choice. All that character, excitement and potential is exactly why she chose you in the first place.
Nature will take over and life will be good.
So stoke the fire some more and enjoy the benefits.
All the best,